You tell your child to get started on a task, and they say, “Okay!” — then promptly wander off.
Another child in the same house has already made a plan, started the task, and is now correcting your spelling.
Same family. Different kids. Completely different wiring.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
When motivation dips or learning becomes a struggle, many parents focus on external solutions: more practice, better routines, new learning tools. But often, the missing link isn’t what your child is doing — it’s how they’re wired.
Children don’t just learn differently — they respond to support differently too.
That’s why understanding your child’s personality style is one of the most powerful tools you can have.
At Unify, we use an age-appropriate version of the DISC model, based on decades of behavioural research. It helps identify how your child naturally reacts to:
It’s not about putting them in a box — it’s about understanding their starting point.
Our child-friendly DISC model looks at four primary personality tendencies:
Children can also be a blend of two styles, and how strongly each trait shows up can change over time. That’s why having regular insight makes all the difference.
Let’s say your child (age 6) is high in Supportive and Cautious traits.
They take their time. They don’t like being rushed. They thrive on clear instructions and get flustered when plans change. If you approach with too much pressure or emotion, they might shut down.
Now picture your 8-year-old who leans more Dominant and Influential.
They want freedom, fast answers, and their own way of doing things. They don’t respond well to being told exactly how to do something — but they light up when you give them choice and challenge.
Both are bright, capable kids. But they need totally different approaches to feel confident and motivated.
Your own personality style affects how you parent — how you explain things, respond to stress, and manage your child’s behaviour.
Maybe you’re naturally structured and precise — but your child thrives on flexibility and fun.
Or you tend to avoid conflict — while your child pushes limits and craves boundaries.
Understanding both your styles helps you:
When used together, your child’s personality assessment and learning style assessment give you a more complete picture.
Where personality explains how they behave and respond…
Learning style shows you how they process and absorb information.
Together, they help you support your child academically, emotionally, and behaviourally — all in ways that feel more natural for them (and easier for you).
The DISC model is based on research going back to the 1920s (Marston, 1928) and has been widely used in education, workplace development, and family dynamics for decades. When we understand personality preferences and adjust how we motivate and guide children, outcomes improve across learning, behaviour, and emotional wellbeing.
With the Unify Personality Assessment, you’ll receive:
And when paired with our Learning Style Assessment, you’ll have a truly personalised roadmap to support your child’s growth — in and out of the classroom.
No two children are the same — and they shouldn’t be treated like they are.
When you understand how your child is wired, you stop trying to fix them — and start helping them thrive on their own terms
